When it comes to rules about life and living the fewer people have the easier it is to be happier. Why? Because fewer reules means fewer expectations, fewer judgements about how things should be and that means less anger, frustration and stress. And that means more room for being happier. So instead of continually trying make others follow rules simply go with the flow. Enjoy people as they are. Then there's no need to force others to fit a particular mold or pattern... they can be they way they really are. Then enjoying life is much, much easier.