The 7 Stages of Marriage
Every marriage whether we like it or not progresses through seven stages. Keep in mind that because we are all so different some stages of marriage may be short and go by almost un-noticed while other stages may drag on for years.
Lust
This is the stage where both partners see each other through rose colored glasses and lust for each other.
Who Are You?
The partners are getting to know who they are really with. This is where the rose colored glasses come off and each begins seeing the other as they really are.
I Want More
This is where 75% of all marriages fail. It is the stage where one or both partners begins putting themselves before the relationship and wishing it could be different. Typically, one partner will stop compromising and do what they want regardless of how their partner feels.
Commitment
In this stage both partners make commitments to certain joint goals such as raising children, buying a home, or living a certain lifestyle.
Crisis
This can happen at anytime. When any major life-changing event occurs the couple can be thrown into crisis mode.
Healing
When the major commitments are fulfilled most outside distractions to the marriage fade away the couple begins focus on the relationship once more. Provided, of course, their love has not been completely destroyed.
Completion
Finally, one or both partners becomes ill and faces death. This is where the couple can enjoy their final embrace and say goodbye.
